Gurdjieff said that one of the chief addictions of his students was suffering. How do you release this addiction coming from our Christian based culture that makes this so prevalent?
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Wed, September 28, 2005 - 12:42 PM1. choose not to suffer
2. realize that it is my attachment to the suffering story
3. change the story to one of love
This is just a thought of mine as I ponder suffering and review all my past teachings. First I feel I would have to make the conscious choice that I could suffer or not suffer, and that this is based on a choice. So bringing awareness to this would be my first step. Do I really want to suffer? Then I would examine how the story I see before me is creating my suffering. How am I attached to the story? Does the story behove me? The story is not the truth of the moment. It is an interpretation of it. So I can choose to interpret another version of the story. Perhaps one that brings me a sense of immense joy and connectedness to the universe.
That is what I would do.
Other's thoughts on this??
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Thu, September 29, 2005 - 2:19 PMwas the addiction to unconscious suffering?
isn't conscious suffering necessary?
lent has been around for a long time - i've come to look at it as a timed 'experiment' in conscious suffering
no pain, no gain as my acupunturist is apt to say
and i am thankful for my experience of dis-ease because without it how could i know more fully the really good bits of life
and i question what in our society is truly based on the precepts of christ -
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Mon, May 29, 2006 - 11:52 PMOh yeah, from what I've read too, conscious suffering is a necessary part of developing the fourth body. It creates the friction.
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Tue, October 4, 2005 - 8:09 PMFirst thing I'd say, if you haven't already started this, do what you can to get into a Gurdjieff group associated with the Gurdjieff Foundation. Remember that Gurdjieff said that we're under certain laws, many of which we make for ourselves, in addition to planetary laws, which rule our lives (and our suffering). Working in a group with a teacher, the possibility exists for us to become free from some of these laws, and we can learn to operate under different laws which are more useful. Let the modern Christians be a reminder of what can happen to you if you don't find your way out of this mess. -
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Mon, May 29, 2006 - 10:10 AMI agree about finding a group, but I think avoiding the foundation folks is best. All thos I have met seem to be stuck in their own traditon. Gurdjieff himself, melded many teachings to form his own way and then shape it into something he could teach. To work in the spirit of "never do things as others do" is important, and yet to recognize help in it's many surprising forms....and allow help to come in...
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Mon, May 29, 2006 - 11:45 PMIn what way do you mean too traditional?
I've had years of experience in the Foundation and have even been to different groups within the Foundation, do to moving. Each group was different and very unpredictable, which actually made it challenging to move into a new group. At times, people were encouraged to draw on the strengths of their particular religious background, as the Work is not a competing religion, but is organic and constantly changing due to the ever changing environment. I've heard from friends in other groups that some can be more rigid, but to me, that only attests to the variety within the Foundation. Sometimes tradition is best for a group, sometimes fluidity. Talking to some people that had been in one group for a while, I was told that their group vacillated between structure and the void, and you basically couldn't predict what the next turn would bring.
If you're referring to the dances, from what I've seen, yeah, they're traditional. But if they work, then why reinvent the wheel?
I was also in a Fellowship of Friends group for a while. Watch out for snakes.
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Tue, May 30, 2006 - 3:16 AMForgot to add something =)
All the teachers within the G. Foundation that I've met have all had a distinctive way of teaching, and obviously a different background in studies. Listening to them talk, I can tell that through their lives they've found wisdom through many ways, and I can also remember them siting sources from Sufism and Native American practices, just to name a couple. Even in the libraries of the different schools I've been to, there's always a plethora of litertaure from non-Gurdjieff sources. I would have to disagree that there is a general puritanical conviction within the G. Foundation.
Gurdjieff said himself that each individual's work is their own. A teacher can only create an environment for an individual to do their own work in. If I come to my awareness by simple means, even means some may categorize as traditional, there is no harm done. I don't live next door to Ghandi or a Buddhist monestary. I'm a single mom caught in the daily grind, and can't ditch my responsibilities to take on the type of search Gurdjieff did. (He also admits himself that he grew up in very unusual circumstances where he came easily into contact with amazing teachers.) So I plan to make do with what I'm given. Perhaps the Foundation people you're meeting are just folks in similar situations: lucky, and very happy, if they have time just to read one paragraph from In Search. It's not that we resist valuable information, it's that we live in Corporate America.
Background on the Foundation for anyone who hasn't heard of it:
Gurdjieff instructed Madamme de Salzmann to take over the Work after his death. She established the Foundation and continued his teachings, and then after her death, Michel de Salzmann (Gurdjieff's son) continued the head the Foundation.
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Thu, September 28, 2006 - 8:23 AMthe work seems to be above people and yet people are needed for it to work , am saying this because it is a very fine line that divides WORK of what thinks is to work.Thats why at times yes there are puritanical and subjective ways of experession.
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Thu, April 3, 2008 - 12:58 AMJolie, [I'm a single mom caught in the daily grind, and can't ditch my responsibilities to take on the type of search Gurdjieff did. ] The Fourth Way is one approachable from life. Good for you! A thousand years ago, I took two rented horses, three pistols and plenty of whiskey on a journey east from Bokhara. I concluded that there was either no school, or that I wasn't to be the one to find it! The opportunities for work to be found in your home must be equal in every way to all the promises of those rude people and that pesky desert. Take a look at the FourthWayHomeSchool. We post papers of class notes from our little Fourth Way School. The sincerity of being duties gives your life the possibility of light. The brave, sturdy obyvatel marks the respect we have for you!
Best Always
CLH
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Tue, May 30, 2006 - 1:17 AMA most intriguing thread, this is. Rather than addiction, I see this question as an attempt to address the distinction between worthless suffering and meaningful or intentional suffering. Gurdjieff taught something he called "intentional suffering" as a way to counteract the more prevalent unintentional suffering that leads to the sleep of spiritual amnesia.
As I understand and practice intentional suffering, it involves choosing small inconviences over the quick and easy convenient options amidst the daily series of choices we all make. For example, instead of driving home from work on the most efficient and quick route, choose a more circuitous route with more complicated choices like navigating unfamiliar neighborhoods.
Intentional suffering can take on many forms. The intent is to find the will to go against the grain of habit with enough consistency to increase the force of will so as to overcome the force of habit and thus, produce more consciousness and presence.
Another example might be to inconvenience yourself by a social decision to attend a party or gathering with people you don't care for, who "step on your corns", just to see how long you can endure the event before lapsing into negative emotion.
Choosing to inconvenience yourself is a form of intentional suffering that can assist the process of "kicking" the addiction to the worthless suffering that leads to sleep. -
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Mon, September 25, 2006 - 10:25 AMIntentional suffering is fun. I like to suffer productively by riding my bike instead of driving or reading difficult material that I'm not especially interested in. -
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Mon, March 19, 2007 - 8:20 PMA student was telling the teacher, one day, that it was very difficult to make it to all the teachings, because it was so far to travel. Another student told the teacher it was no problem for them. The teacher turned to the second person and said, maybe you should move farther away.
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Mon, September 25, 2006 - 12:09 PMAlso remember that there is a difference between "voluntary" and "intentional" suffering. I may choose to suffer by going to the dentist, but this would likely be "voluntary" suffering, as I "volunteer" or "choose" to go in order to receive the benefit of removing tooth pain or preventing future dental difficulties, like a cavity. This WOULD NOT be an example of "intentional" suffering. Only "intentional" suffering is of value according to the Fourth Way tradition.
I'm not saying that the Fourth Way tradition is correct, simply clarifying that there is an important distiction between "voluntary" and "intentional" suffering. I often hear folks talk about how they engage in "intentional suffering" when, in fact, they are simply suffering voluntarity. -
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Mon, September 25, 2006 - 6:07 PMIs intentional suffering done with the intent of breaking habits and increasing understanding rather than accomplishing some external goal? What if you can accomplish an external goal while breaking habits and learning??
Okay, I'm going to go read some Gurdjieff before I ask any more questions.
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Mon, September 25, 2006 - 8:50 PMGI:
Upon reading my last post here about "intentional suffering", in your opinion would you say that my examples point to that or to volunttary suffering ? -
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Mon, September 25, 2006 - 9:25 PMYour exampes sound closer to intentional suffering than voluntary. It all boils down to one's intent in the "suffering". Gurdjieff tried to be very clear on the differences and hounded some of his pupils who confused voluntary with intentional suffering.
The orthodox Fourth Wayers might not like the following comparison, but who cares what they think (you know who you are). One can think of "intentional" suffering in the sense that the Bhagavad Gita speaks of engaging in activity without desire for the fruit of ones efforts. If one quits smoking cigarettes, drinking every day, shooting heroin, whatever, in order to improve one's health, there is suffering involved. Voluntary suffering. One has voluntarily suffered with the intent of gaining a benefit. If I engage in quitting smoking every three months as an exercise, starting and quitting, for it's own sake, this might be "intentional". Or it could be delusion and rationalization. Too many motives that are not conscious may be playing out.
Working on one's "weak" circuits (in the sense of the 8 circuit model), such as going to a social party if the fourth circuit needs work, is, in my opinion, a very good example of "intentional suffering". Much to be observed in oneself in those circumstances. -
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Wed, September 27, 2006 - 5:00 AMI love your reference to intentional suffering and smoking... a great way of explaining yoursefl!
Is there a book in the making? "The Fourth Way and Smoking Cigarettes"
Anyhow, a great topic!
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Thu, September 28, 2006 - 8:56 PMinteresting your view, life however has the power to put us under circumstances, whereby one can choose to work upon that , what suffers , or simply avoid it.I think it has more to power when it reaches inside us and we therefore are unable to cope with such an event.I do not choose because am unable to yield.
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Sun, November 19, 2006 - 2:27 AM"...Michel de Salzmann (Gurdjieff's son) continued the head the Foundation" (sic) - Posted by Jolie.
Where is the evidence to be found for this statement - ie that M de S was Gurdjieff's son? -
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Mon, March 19, 2007 - 8:25 PMJust look at his picture, he looks just like Gurdjieff.
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